How Do We Help Others Carry the Cross?

How Do We Help Others Carry the Cross?

Much guidance can be found on how to suffer profitably, how to think of suffering, and why it even exists. But one of the things I've struggled with in my prayer life is how to pray for loved ones who find themselves in the midst of suffering. And now that I seem to...

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The Gentle and Arduous Task of Shepherding Little Souls

The Gentle and Arduous Task of Shepherding Little Souls

Yesterday after supper, the 6-year-old squeezed himself into the space between me and the back of the couch while I tried to catch up on reading. He does this often, using me alternately as pillow, footrest, jungle gym or whatever else suits his mood and restless...

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From Where I Stand, Pope Francis: Mid-Visit Musings

From Where I Stand, Pope Francis: Mid-Visit Musings

Like most everyone else our family is in a Pope Francis frenzy these days. Reading, talking, listening, praying. How can we not? The whole country is paying attention, or at least those of us on social media . As always, I am fascinated with all the different...

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Why I’m Leaving Facebook, for the Nth Time

Why I’m Leaving Facebook, for the Nth Time

Pardon the me-centric post, please. I'm leaving Facebook, again, this time for longer. I wish I was strong enough to say "forever", but I know my weaknesses. Friends prayed for me as I was discerning this latest departure, and I have no doubt that this is what God...

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Dear Mainstream Media, We Know What You’re Doing

Dear Mainstream Media, We Know What You’re Doing

Today my feed was inundated with Pope Francis supposedly relaxing the rules on abortion. Except that's not quite accurate. He didn't relax the rules on ABORTION per se -- it's STILL considered a sin in the Catholic Church -- always has been, always will be. We already...

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Let’s Talk Submission, Part 3: Last Thoughts

Let’s Talk Submission, Part 3: Last Thoughts

Let's Talk Submission: Part 1 Let's Talk Submission Part 2: Some Practical Suggestions I'd like to go back to some women's concerns about their husband's inability or unwillingness to lead, and ways to help with that. Try writing out a family mission statement. That...

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Let’s Talk Submission, Part 2: Some Practical Suggestions

Let’s Talk Submission, Part 2: Some Practical Suggestions

Let's Talk Submission: Part 1 Let's Talk Submission Part 3: Last Thoughts We can do a lot towards rebuilding the husband's role in our marriages: We need to stop being control-freaks (speaking to myself here really) and let men take the lead whenever possible....

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Let’s Talk Submission (Part 1)

Let’s Talk Submission (Part 1)

Let's Talk Submission Part 2: Some Practical Suggestions Let's Talk Submission Part 3: Last Thoughts Last week, a friend asked me if I had a blog post on submission. She asked,"Does that mean we (women) don't get to have opinions?" I promised her a more detailed...

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What the 6-year-old is Reading Now

What the 6-year-old is Reading Now

A friend with little ones asked me about reading recommendations for her 6-7 year olds, so I thought I'd give her a list of what our 6.5-year-old is reading right now. Hope this helps, J! Life of Fred Decimals and Percents - his big sister's book, but he's reading it...

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Horror Fatigue, Desensitization, Escape, Responsibility

Fr. Dwight makes a sad observation here. I agree. It's also desensitization. When you see violence all over the place, real and unreal (video games, movies, TV) it's easy for everything to just become one huge blur. And I think (analyzing some of my friends' responses...

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Our Homeschooling Story, Part 2, and Favorite Sources

Our Homeschooling Story, Part 2, and Favorite Sources

Part 1 is here. And so our journey began anew. As I mentioned in the previous post, I found an awesome online support group: Catholic Charlotte Mason (aka CCM -- they still exist, if you would like to join).  I also had the local support group plus several other...

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